I have to say that I could understand this man's frustration. But, I am thinking there is hope! You see, I have had a profound hormonal imbalance since the birth of our daughter five years ago. Not only have we struggled with infertility since then, but I have had severe PMS and a complete loss of libido. It has been so very hard on our marriage. It wasn't until recently that I realized what has been going on. I thought there was a psychological or spiritual problem in me. I knew the infertility was physical, but I couldn't understand why I wanted to hit the ceiling when approached by my husband for sex.

Loss of libido and PMS are not normal. One year ago I started receiving nutritional treatment (with supplements) from a reputable nutritionist at my chiropractors. My PMS is gone. I am still working on the libido part, though. My OB/GYN suggests testosterone supplements, Viagra for women, and/or anti-depressants. The nutritionist also has some things that I have not tried yet.

I think there have been times that my husband's frustration could equal this man's. It has all been very humbling for me. Just discussing it with professionals is humbling. It certainly doesn't seem to be something discussed a lot, but my doctor tells me that he has hundreds of women on the testosterone.

I will keep this man and his wife in my prayers. This is a huge burden on a marriage.