I read the letter by the "man resentful of NFP."  I have to say that I could understand his frustration. But, I am thinking there is hope!

You see, I have had a profound hormonal imbalance since the birth of our daughter five years ago. Not only have we struggled with infertility since then, but I have had severe PMS and a complete loss of libido. It has been so very hard on our marriage. It wasn't until recently that I realized what has been going on. I thought there was a psychological or spiritual problem in me. I knew the infertility was physical, but I couldn't understand why I wanted to hit the ceiling when approached by my husband for sex. 

Loss of libido and PMS are not normal. One year ago I started receiving nutritional treatment (with supplements) from a reputable nutritionist at my chiropractors. My PMS is gone. I am still working on the libido part, though. My OB/GYN suggests testosterone supplements, Viagra for women and/or anti-depressants. The nutritionist also has some things that I have not tried yet.   

I think there have been times that my husband's frustration could equal this man's. t has all been very humbling for me. Just discussing it with professionals is humbling. It certainly doesn't seem to be something discussed a lot, but my doctor tells me that he has hundreds of women on testosterone.

I will keep this man and his wife in my prayers. This is a huge burden on a marriage.